Kate Motaung

About Kate Motaung

Kate Motaung is the Senior Writer, Editor, and Content Manager for a multi-state company. She is the author of several books including Letters to Grief, 101 Prayers for Comfort in Difficult Times, and A Place to Land: A Story of Longing and Belonging. Kate is also the host of Five Minute Friday, an online writing community that equips and encourages Christian writers, and the owner of Refine Services, a company that offers editing services. She and her South African husband have three young adult children and currently live in West Michigan. Find Kate’s books at katemotaung.com/books.

How to Enjoy Successful Aging

, June 19th, 2025|Aging and Geriatric Issues, Featured, Individual Counseling|

Successful aging means preparing for the future while maintaining physical and mental health. Your quality of life as you age can tremendously impact overall happiness. It does limited good to have your financial matters in order before retirement, but your physical health or cognitive function is not within a [...]

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Signs of a Toxic Relationship: 9 Types of Toxic Friendships

, June 17th, 2025|Featured, Individual Counseling, Relationship Issues|

A true friendship (as opposed to a toxic relationship) is one of God’s sweetest gifts, isn't it? God decided that Adam should not be alone and created Eve to be his companion. In the New Testament, we learn that Jesus surrounded Himself with trusted advisors and authentic and loyal [...]

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Living Well in the Shadow of Social Anxiety Disorder

, June 16th, 2025|Anxiety, Featured, Individual Counseling|

There is beauty in relationships between people that can be hard to put into words. We are at our most human when we are in thriving relationships with others, and that is hardwired into us as deeply relational creatures. This makes it all the more unsettling when social interactions [...]

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What a Healthy Attachment Style Looks Like in Relationships

, May 29th, 2025|Abandonment and Neglect, Featured, Individual Counseling, Relationship Issues|

If you dip your toes on social media or just try to stay abreast of ongoing developments in our culture, you’re probably no stranger to the many dating and relationship horror stories out there. Perhaps there’s a tendency to dwell on negative experiences, skewing the algorithm, but there aren’t [...]

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The Benefits of Trauma-Informed Care in Treating Addiction

, May 29th, 2025|Featured, Individual Counseling, Trauma|

Do you ever wake up feeling like you’re stuck in an unbreakable cycle of addiction? Like the weight of your past is still hanging over you, making it even harder to shake free of the addiction? Maybe you’ve even tried seeking help before, but somehow, it feels like no [...]

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Activities For Christian Married Couples: Games to Spice Up Your Sex Life

, May 23rd, 2025|Couples Counseling, Featured, Individual Counseling, Marriage Counseling, Relationship Issues|

Marriage is work! I often hear people talk about how beautiful marriage is and the love, sunshine, and rainbows; it is all those things and more! However, it can also be tough. And guess what – the longer you are married, the more challenging it can become, especially when [...]

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What Does EMDR Stand For?

, May 20th, 2025|Featured, Individual Counseling, Trauma|

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing and is an evidence-based form of therapy used to treat mental health conditions caused by distressing memories of past traumatic events. Unlike other forms of psychotherapy, EMDR does not require that you talk in detail about your past traumatic experiences to [...]

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7 Ways That Childhood Trauma Can Appear in Your Adult Life

, May 14th, 2025|Featured, Individual Counseling, Men’s Issues, Trauma, Women’s Issues|

You might have realized by now that the past has a way of affecting the present. Childhood trauma can follow you and affect your relationships and friendships later in life. You might only be beginning to connect the dots between your behavior now and what happened in the past, [...]

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5 Child Behavior Problems You Shouldn’t Ignore

, May 13th, 2025|Christian Counseling for Children, Christian Counseling For Teens, Family Counseling, Featured, Individual Counseling, Relationship Issues|

Humans are complex beings. Little humans can be even more complex. According to an array of experts, brains are fully developed around the age of twenty-five. Adult brains are better equipped to handle situations than little human’s (that is, children’s) brains. Children’s minds aren’t developed enough to handle situations [...]

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Signs That a Relationship Might Be a Trauma Bond

, April 22nd, 2025|Featured, Individual Counseling, Relationship Issues, Trauma|

There is an important difference between a trauma bond and bonding over shared trauma. People who have gone through trauma together will often find that their connection deepens because they understand one another in a way no one else can. This can be a vital dynamic to the healing [...]

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